Traveling the world is an exciting adventure, but let’s be real—nobody wants to be that tourist. You know, the one side-eyeing local customs, unknowingly offending elders, or showing up somewhere dressed like they’re headed to brunch instead of a sacred temple.
At Auntie-Approved Adventures, we’re all about immersing ourselves in culture, respecting traditions, and making unforgettable memories. So before you pack those bags, here are some essential cultural do’s and don’ts to keep you travel-ready and respectful, no matter where you go.
1. Do: Learn a Few Local Phrases
Even if you’re not fluent in Spanish, French, or Twi, a simple “Hello,” “Thank you,” or “Where’s the bathroom?” goes a long way. It shows effort and appreciation for the culture. Plus, locals love it when visitors at least try!
✈ Pro Tip: Download Google Translate and practice key phrases before you go. A little goes a long way!
2. Don’t: Assume Everyone Speaks English
Yes, English is widely spoken, but assuming everyone understands you (especially if you speak louder) can come off as entitled. If you’re in a country where English isn’t the primary language, be patient, use gestures, or try translation apps.
3. Do: Dress for the Culture, Not Just the Weather
While that sundress might be cute for Miami, it may not be appropriate for Dubai. Many countries have dress codes, especially in religious sites, so covering shoulders, wearing longer skirts, or avoiding overly tight clothing may be necessary.
✈ Pro Tip: A lightweight scarf is your best friend—it can double as a head covering, shawl, or even a beach wrap.
4. Don’t: Touch People (or Their Heads!) Without Knowing the Custom
In some cultures, touching someone’s head is considered disrespectful (like in Thailand). In others, handshakes aren’t always the norm—some places prefer a bow, a nod, or even avoiding direct physical contact. When in doubt, observe before you act.
5. Do: Be Mindful of Personal Space & Eye Contact
What’s considered friendly in the U.S. might be seen as intrusive elsewhere. In Japan, excessive eye contact can feel aggressive, while in parts of the Middle East, personal space is much closer than in Western cultures.
✈ Pro Tip: Read the room (or the country) and adjust accordingly.
6. Don’t: Assume the “Customer is Always Right”
In many places, customer service doesn’t work like it does in the U.S. Being loud, demanding, or snapping at waitstaff? That’s a quick way to be ignored or seen as rude. A little patience and kindness will get you much further.
7. Do: Embrace the Local Food (But Know Dining Etiquette!)
Eating with your hands is the norm in some cultures (Ethiopia, India), while chopsticks are the go-to in others. Meanwhile, in Italy, adding ketchup to pasta is basically a crime! Before dining, check out basic etiquette to avoid side-eyes at the table.
✈ Pro Tip: Always try at least one local dish—food is one of the best ways to experience a culture!
8. Don’t: Assume Every Place Has the Same Tipping Culture
In the U.S., tipping is expected. In Japan? It can be seen as offensive. In Europe, service charges are often included. Always check the tipping customs before handing over extra cash.
9. Do: Ask for Permission Before Taking Photos of People
Snapping pics of locals, especially in markets, villages, or religious settings, without permission can be seen as intrusive or disrespectful. A simple gesture or asking, “May I?” (in the local language) shows respect.
10. Don’t: Be Afraid to Step Outside Your Comfort Zone
The best travel moments happen when you’re open to new experiences. Whether it’s dancing with locals in Ghana, riding a camel in Morocco, or sipping tea in Turkey, saying “yes” to new adventures is what makes travel unforgettable.
Final Thoughts
Travel isn’t just about seeing new places—it’s about experiencing them with an open heart and mind. When we respect local customs and embrace different traditions, we create deeper connections and leave a positive impact wherever we go.
So Aunties, as you prep for your next adventure, keep these cultural do’s and don’ts in mind. The world is waiting—let’s explore it the right way!
✈ Which cultural tip surprised you the most?